How to ask a girl out

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There's this girl in my class that I really like. But she doesn't even know I exist.

Do I have a chance? How do can I ask her out? Just the thought of talking to her makes me nervous.

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  • George Gavino
    George Gavino
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    You gotta be confident. 

    Girls love confident guys.

    It sounds like you gotta work on your confidence bro. 

    Abigail West
    Abigail West
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    Just be brave and ask her out!

    Brock Verge
    Brock Verge
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    Don't listen to try and be "friends" advice.

    Been there, done that.

    It doesn't work. Girls don't date their "friends." Once your in the friend zone, you can never get out!

    Shawn Reeves
    Shawn Reeves
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    Don’t stress so much. When you put too much pressure on yourself, you can’t “perform” well. That’s with anything in life. If you think about it too much, you’ll just stress yourself out.

    Try to relax, go up to her and say , “Hi, I’m James....” then try to ‘naturally’ ask her a question, something from class, ideally you wanna try to find out what she likes to do and use it for conversation. 

    Remember, just relax. 

    Brittany Hays
    Brittany Hays
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    Just talk to her first! If you don't talk to her she'll never know who you are.

    Joe Davies
    Joe Davies
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    Just try to talk to her. Don’t think about it too much or else you’ll be too nervous. 

    James Little
    James Little
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    Thanks for the suggestion guys, I'm still trying to figure out a way to approach her. 

    Gerald Clark
    Gerald Clark
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    I know it's hard, but try to get the courage to just say hello and try to talk to her.
    Juliet Lee
    Juliet Lee
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    Just try to become her friend first! Then you can start hanging out and get to know her better.

    Jack Caswell
    Jack Caswell
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    Let me guess, she's pretty and popular, probably a cheerleader. 

    If she is, you should just give it up. Those type of girls are only into jocks and "bad boys." 

    Try to find someone with more similar interests and more like you.

    Kirsten Bauch
    Kirsten Bauch
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    Become friends with her first! Then you won't feel so pressured and nervous around her.

    Michelle Thayer
    Michelle Thayer
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    Uhh, you can't just go up to a stranger and ask them out.

    I'd be so weirded out if some random person came up to me and "asked me out."

    Try to get to know her first

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