How to ask a girl out
There's this girl in my class that I really like. But she doesn't even know I exist.
Do I have a chance? How do can I ask her out? Just the thought of talking to her makes me nervous.
- Expert Answers (12)
You gotta be confident.
Girls love confident guys.
It sounds like you gotta work on your confidence bro.Brock Verge
Don't listen to try and be "friends" advice.
Been there, done that.
It doesn't work. Girls don't date their "friends." Once your in the friend zone, you can never get out!Shawn Reeves
Don’t stress so much. When you put too much pressure on yourself, you can’t “perform” well. That’s with anything in life. If you think about it too much, you’ll just stress yourself out.
Try to relax, go up to her and say , “Hi, I’m James....” then try to ‘naturally’ ask her a question, something from class, ideally you wanna try to find out what she likes to do and use it for conversation.
Remember, just relax.Brittany Hays2 months ago
Just talk to her first! If you don't talk to her she'll never know who you are.Joe Davies6 months ago
Just try to talk to her. Don’t think about it too much or else you’ll be too nervous.James Little11 months ago
Thanks for the suggestion guys, I'm still trying to figure out a way to approach her.Gerald ClarkI know it's hard, but try to get the courage to just say hello and try to talk to her.Juliet Lee
Just try to become her friend first! Then you can start hanging out and get to know her better.Jack Caswell
Let me guess, she's pretty and popular, probably a cheerleader.
If she is, you should just give it up. Those type of girls are only into jocks and "bad boys."
Try to find someone with more similar interests and more like you.Kirsten Bauch
Become friends with her first! Then you won't feel so pressured and nervous around her.